How to find out if your partner is cheating

Being in love and getting married is a wonderful, magical time and yet too many people walk into their wedding without being properly prepared. Getting married is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. And like any important decision, you don’t want to make it without all the information.

Herald offers matrimonial investigative services to compile evidence of infidelity for you, hence uncover the truth behind your suspicions.

How to tell if your partner is cheating – what are the signs?

There is no definitive checklist, but we’d all like to think that we know the person we’ve chosen to spend our time with inside-out. When it feels like something just isn’t quite right, it may not be a bad idea to follow your gut.

Here are a few things to look out for:

  1. Drastic changes in physical intimacy
  2. Your partner is frequently unreachable
  3. Unexpected changes in schedules
  4. Your mutual friends are acting weird
  5. Lack of emotional intimacy
  6. Your partner is inexplicably defensive
  7. Unexplained expenses
  8. Your partner spends a lot of time away from you
  9. Catching your partner in lies
  10. Your partner is hiding their phone

Of course, there may be perfectly reasonable explanations for any of the above! That’s why you need a team of experienced surveillance experts to do the hard work for you.

Find out if your partner is cheating

Should you choose to use our services, Herald will deploy a surveillance team to track down your partner’s behaviour and activities, ultimately concluding whether or not the subject is being unfaithful. Surveillance is centred on the notion of discretion, so all of the actions will be subtle and go unnoticed by your partner.

In the circumstances of unfavourable findings – that is, should we conclude that the subject is, in fact, being unfaithful – the team will compile comprehensive evidence, for instances, photographs, videos and other types of records. If you wish to proceed with a divorce, this intelligence could serve as indisputable evidence in court to benefit your case.

Child custody

One of the more difficult aspects of divorce proceedings, fighting for custody of children requires extensive evidence to back up claims of infidelity and to gain sole custody. While the issue is incredibly sensitive for both the children and the parents, professional and discreet surveillance is key in ensuring that the investigation is conducted the right way for legal purposes. 

Final thoughts on how to tell if your partner is cheating

As mentioned, simply being suspicious isn’t enough to be able to confidently determine that your partner is having an affair. Whether your gut instinct is right or you end up being overly paranoid, it’s always best to know what’s really going on – if my partner cheated on me, I’d certainly want to know. And if you want to uncover the truth, consulting professional service, like ours, will allow you to protect yourself and go about things the right way. For further details of matrimonial investigative services, please do not hesitate to contact us here.